The Single Most Important Dating Advice for Divorced Dads. The fact of the matter is that dating, sex, and women are one of the top reasons that a single man chooses to travel and/or live abroad. If not the most important reason of them all. There is a lot you can learn from websites like Match.com or eHarmony. They’ve mastered a lot over the years and have added features based on research and user feedback. All you have to do now, is use their experience as inputs for your dating website on WordPress. I’ve known my friend and colleague, Jake Eagle, since 1994. Years ago, when Jake was developing his Dating ? Relating ? Mating (DRM) philosophy, I had the privilege of learning it from him directly, before it was available to the public. How to Stop Dating a Married Woman.